In every aspect of our lives we have relationships: family, at work, friends, fellow church members, neighbors, school and others. We cultivate those in which we hold value. Other relationships just exist and we do not spend much time in nurturing them. That’s life!
What about with God? Actually, I believe there is a relationship to be built with the God head: God, Jesus the Christ and the Holy Spirit. Absolutely the most significant relationship we can have and develop. How much effort is spent in development and cultivation of our relationship with HIM? Perhaps an hour or two per week sitting in a pew?
This writing is created from three writers; Allen Jackson, Max Lucado and F. LaGard Smith. Each of these men have much to say about our relationship with God.
In his book, Standing Firm, Allen Jackson writes:
“How do you become a participant in the Kingdom of God? Perhaps you think you must have inherited Christian faith from your parents, like your eye color, or because you visit a church on Easter and Christmas and know all the songs. Actually, none of these things make you a part of God’s Kingdom. Unlike other faiths, the Christian faith is intensely personal---the decision to make Jesus Lord of your life is yours alone. It is about your relationship with Jesus of Nazareth. Mr. Jackson asks this question: “Is your relationship with Jesus one you feel you inherited, or is it one you have established yourself?”
He adds in another chapter that the Pharisees and Sadducees were religious but did not recognize the Messiah because he did not fit their preconceived notions. “We too can be outwardly religious and not believe in God. We can sit in church, carry a big Bible, and know every song, and yet have no relationship with Jesus. Let’s examine our hearts to ensure our desire is not to put on a religious show, but to be a friend of Jesus.”
Max Lucado also points to our relationship with God: “God rewards those who seek Him. Not those who seek doctrine of religion or systems or creeds. Many settle for these lesser passions, but the reward goes to those who settle for nothing less than Jesus himself. And what is the reward? What awaits those who seek Jesus? Nothing short of the heart of Jesus.” ― Max Lucado, Just Like Jesus: Learning to Have a Heart Like His
In his book, On the Anvil, Nr. Lucado writes about Judas, the man who never knew Jesus. “We learn this timeless lesson from the betrayer. Satan’s best tools of destruction are not from outside the church, they are within the church. A church will never die from the immorality in Hollywood or the corruption in Washington. But it will die from corrosion within—from those that bear the name of Jesus but have never met Him, and from those that have religion but no relationship. Judas bore the cloak of religion, but he never knew the heart of Jesus. Let’s make it our goal to know….deeply.”
In Meeting God In Quiet Places, F. LaGard Smith writes a chapter he labels Nettles. He writes that nettles look so harmless but are quiet prickly. His story is about the rich young man who was unwilling to surrender his possessions to have a relationship with Jesus. Mr. Smith writes: “Surrendering to God is the most difficult decision we will ever make. The prophet Joel reminds us that we are not alone when we face the moment of choosing: ‘multitudes, multitudes in the valley of decision. For the day of the Lord is near in the valley of decision.’ What Joel really means is that most of us live an entire lifetime in the valley of in decision. To surrender or not to surrender---that is the ultimate question of life.”
“Through His complete surrender on the cross, Jesus has already grasped the nettle for us. He has taken away the sting of death. All we need to do is to put our hand in His—to feel the softness of His love and never let go!”
Each writer has written in his own style about the importance of a relationship with Jesus. Jesus the Christ allowed his body and blood to be the sacrifice for our sins so we have the hope of heaven. Why would we not cultivate and develop a relationship with Him? God does not take our relationship with Him lightly so we shouldn’t either!
We spend the majority of our waking life on our relationship with others and so little about Him. If we are not praying, studying and trying to encourage others, our relationship needs improving. Remember that our relationship with Him should be our priority!
Thanks!
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Standing Firm – Allen Jackson – 2018 – Intend Publishing – Used with permission
Just Like Jesus - Max Lucado – 1998 – Word Publishing – Used permission
On The Anvil – Max Lucado – 1985 – Tyndale Publishing – Used with permission
Meeting God In Quiet Places- 1992 – Harvest House Publishers – Used with permission
Bold emphasis is mine